REDEEMING REJECTION IN THE MATERNAL BLOODLINE
God is bringing freedom to rooted rejection in maternal bloodlines so we can experience true intimacy between mothers and sons and daughters. The direction will be changed for parentified children so that men and women are free to be sons and daughters. We are shifting this by choosing to respond to Him instead guilt that tells us that we aren’t good enough. This is where we will begin walking in who we already are. When we begin saying no, we will begin saying yes to identity, where true love can flow into our intimate relationships. This allows space for God to become the intimacy in our relationships, not what we are doing or even how much we are talking. There is nothing to earn when we already know we have been accepted.
The load is becoming too much to bear because it is no longer familiar. It is not aligning because God is revealing more of who you are and the contrasts and ideologies, beliefs and behaviors that misalignment will become more prominent. If you are feeling overwhelmed by your parent’s burdens, it’s because you haven’t let Him carry it for you. Can you let Him? What fear gets exposed when you hand them to God?
When we move out of the role of God in our parents life (and forgive them for putting us there, and forgive ourselves for being there), we allow them to have their needs met so they may overflow from a place of fullness which is where they become true parents. It is our choice to move out of the way. It is their choice to let God meet their needs so they can love us.
And you did not receive the “spirit of religious duty,” leading you back into the fear of never being good enough. But you have received the “Spirit of full acceptance,” enfolding you into the family of God. And you will never feel orphaned, for as he rises up within us, our spirits join him in saying the words of tender affection, “Beloved Father!” 16 For the Holy Spirit makes God’s fatherhood real to us as he whispers into our innermost being, “You are God’s beloved child!”
